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I hope this newsletter finds you with a peaceful mind and heart. 4-minute read Understanding Our Role in the End of Relationships: A Pathway to Personal Growth Relationships are complex, and when they come to an end, it's natural to experience a range of emotions. However, rather than solely attributing blame or pointing fingers, a deeper understanding of our role in the dissolution can lead to valuable personal growth and healing. Here, we explore the importance of identifying our role in relationship endings and how this awareness can foster emotional resilience and future relational success. 1. Accepting Personal Accountability The first step in understanding our role in the end of a relationship is accepting personal accountability. It's easy to attribute the breakup solely to the actions or behaviors of the other person, but acknowledging our own contributions whether through actions, reactions, or inactions is crucial for personal growth and moving forward constructively. 2. Reflecting on Communication and Behavior Reflection is key to gaining insights into our role in relationship endings. Consider how communication styles, emotional responses, or patterns of behavior influenced the dynamics of the relationship. Were there misunderstandings that escalated? Did certain behaviors contribute to a breakdown in trust or intimacy? Honest reflection helps uncover patterns that may have impacted the relationship's trajectory. 3. Learning from Emotional Triggers Relationship endings often bring emotional triggers to the surface. Identifying our emotional triggers such as insecurities, fears of abandonment, or communication difficulties for example can provide clarity on how these factors influenced relationship dynamics. Learning from these triggers involves developing emotional intelligence and self-awareness, which are essential for healthier future relationships. 4. Seeking Feedback and Perspective Seeking feedback from trusted friends, family members, or even a therapist can provide valuable perspective on our role in relationship endings. They can offer insights into blind spots or recurring behaviors that contributed to challenges within the relationship. Constructive feedback fosters personal growth and helps us make informed decisions in future relationships. 5. Cultivating Emotional Resilience Understanding our role in relationship endings is an opportunity to cultivate emotional resilience. It involves acknowledging and processing emotions such as grief, disappointment, or guilt while also recognizing our capacity to heal and grow. Cultivating emotional resilience empowers us to navigate future relationship challenges with greater strength and self-awareness. 6. Moving Forward with Intention Ultimately, identifying our role in relationship endings is about embracing personal growth and moving forward with intention. It's about learning from past experiences, letting go of blame or resentment, and focusing on becoming the best version of ourselves. By taking ownership of our actions and emotions, we pave the way for healthier relationships in the future. Conclusion In conclusion, understanding our role in the end of relationships is a transformative process that requires introspection, accountability, and a commitment to personal growth. By reflecting on communication, behaviors, emotional triggers, seeking feedback, cultivating resilience, and moving forward with intention, we not only heal from the past but also lay the groundwork for fulfilling and meaningful relationships ahead. So, the next time you find yourself reflecting on the end of a relationship, remember to explore your role in the outcome. Embrace the opportunity for self-discovery and growth, knowing that each experience contributes to your journey toward emotional resilience and relational success. “An early morning walk is a blessing for the whole day.”— Henry David Thoreau A little about me / my practice:
I wish you a healthy Summer season and look forward to seeing you when the time is right for you. Until then…. Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC Owner, Turning Inward LLC Email: [email protected]
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I hope this newsletter finds you with a peaceful mind and heart. 2-minute read The Therapeutic Power of Laughter: Why Humor is Essential for Mental WellnessIn the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, amidst the chaos and stress, there's one powerful tool often overlooked but readily available to us: laughter. We've all experienced the joy and relief that comes with a good laugh, but did you know that laughter has genuine therapeutic benefits for our mental health? Let's explore why incorporating humor into our lives can be a game-changer for our overall well-being. 1. Stress Relief: Laughter is a natural stress reliever. When we laugh, our body releases endorphins, the feel-good hormones, which can help alleviate tension and promote relaxation. It's like a mini vacation for the mind, allowing us to momentarily escape from the pressures of life. 2. Bonding and Connection: Sharing a laugh with others creates a sense of camaraderie and strengthens social bonds. Whether it's reminiscing about funny memories or enjoying a good comedy together, laughter fosters connection and builds relationships. It breaks down barriers, making it easier to communicate and relate to one another. 3. Perspective Shift: Humor has the remarkable ability to shift our perspective on challenging situations. It doesn't necessarily change the circumstances, but it changes how we perceive them. By finding the humor in life's ups and downs, we can approach difficulties with resilience and optimism, seeing them as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable obstacles. 4. Boosts Immune System: Believe it or not, laughter can actually boost our immune system. Studies have shown that laughing increases the production of antibodies and activates immune cells, strengthening our body's defense against illness. So, not only does laughter feel good, but it also supports our physical health. 5. Mental Well-being: In addition to its physical benefits, laughter is a powerful tool for enhancing mental well-being. It reduces feelings of anxiety and depression by promoting a sense of lightness and joy. Incorporating humor into our daily lives can help us cope with life's challenges more effectively and maintain a positive outlook even in difficult times. In a world filled with stress and uncertainty, laughter is a beacon of light that can brighten even the darkest of days. It's not just a frivolous indulgence; it's a fundamental aspect of self-care and mental wellness. So, let's embrace the power of laughter, seek out moments of joy and humor, and remember to laugh a little louder, smile a little brighter, and cherish the healing magic of laughter. After all, as Charlie Chaplin once said, "A day without laughter is a day wasted." “Nature is the purest portal to inner-peace.” - Angie Weiland CrosbyA little about me / my practice:
I wish you a healthy Spring season and look forward to seeing you when the time is right for you. Until then…. Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC Owner, Turning Inward Counseling Email: [email protected] I hope this newsletter finds you with a peaceful mind and heart. 4-minute read "Time doesn't stop moving forward, nor should we." Increased Affordability, Client Choice, and Privacy
Counseling vs. Life Coaching: Understanding the DifferenceWhen it comes to seeking personal growth or emotional support, both counseling and life coaching can be beneficial, but they serve very different purposes. My focus is counseling because it offers the depth, safety, and professional foundation that many people need to experience lasting change. What Life Coaching Offers Life coaching focuses on helping individuals set and reach personal or professional goals. It’s action-oriented and often emphasizes motivation, accountability, and structure to help people create external change such as improving performance at work, clarifying career direction, or developing new habits. Life coaching can be valuable for individuals who are emotionally well and simply want direction or encouragement. However, it’s important to note that life coaching is not a mental health service. Life coaches are not required to hold advanced degrees or state licenses, and are not bound by ethics or regulations guiding their practice. What Counseling Provides Counseling, by contrast, is focused on emotional well-being and mental health. It provides a safe, confidential space to explore experiences, patterns, and emotions that may be creating distress or holding you back. Counseling supports both healing and growth helping clients manage anxiety, depression, trauma, and other challenges through evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), and mindfulness techniques. Sessions are led by a licensed mental health counselor who has completed a master’s degree or higher and is bound by strict ethical and legal standards as well as ongoing education requirements. This professional training ensures that counseling is guided by research, clinical expertise, and a deep commitment to client safety and confidentiality. Why Counseling Matters While both coaching and counseling aim to help people create positive change, counseling goes deeper. It doesn’t just focus on setting goals it helps uncover why certain patterns, emotions, or behaviors show up, and offers strategies to work through them in sustainable, healthy ways. Counseling helps you build insight, strengthen coping skills, and move toward a more balanced and peaceful life. If you’re feeling stuck, anxious, or overwhelmed or simply want a supportive space to understand yourself better, counseling offers a compassionate, professional path toward growth and healing. A little about me / my practice:
I wish you a healthy winter season and look forward to seeing you when the time is right for you. Until then….
Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC Owner, Turning Inward LLC 937-321-9794 Fall is nature’s way of showing us how beautiful it is to let things go and embrace new beginnings. Many adults in Ohio find that adapting to life changes can be stressful, but with effective coping strategies and emotional support, it’s possible to regain balance and feel more in control. Here are 6 tips for handling change:
Remember that everyone responds to change differently, and it's okay to seek professional help or guidance if you find it particularly difficult to cope with a specific change or if it significantly impacts your mental health. Reminder Updated October 2025
A little about me / my practice:
I wish you a healthy Fall season and look forward to seeing you when the time is right for you.
Warmly, Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC Owner, Turning Inward LLC Supporting adults 18+ through anxiety, stress, life changes, grief, and depression with compassionate counseling. 937-321-9794 “Keep your face always toward the sunshine, and shadows will fall behind you." - Walt Whitman “In your mind, getting back to something basic means: giving it your attention; acknowledging in your heart, your emotions, that it’s important; committing honestly to it, and making a plan about it.” – Rick Hanson, PhD I can recall many years ago when I played volleyball, and our team was making unforced errors and beating ourselves, someone on the team would eventually remind us to get back to basics or fundamentals and they’d say, “It all starts with a pass”, meaning when the serve comes over the net, our most basic job was to pass the ball to the setter, and that was the first thing that had to happen before we could even make an offensive play. Over the years, I’ve found getting back to basics or fundamentals a helpful mental tool for getting out of my own way many times. When feeling overwhelmed and not sure which thing to tackle first, get back to basics, start small, one foot in front of the other. This will be different for all of us. This might mean getting up and taking a shower, or making a cup of coffee, scheduling that overdue appointment, feeding the cat, or cleaning the toilet. Whichever is the case, committing to taking the first step towards the most basic task, must happen before you can move forward. If you're looking to get back to basics and simplify your life, here are some tips that may help:
Reminder Nowadays, inclement weather can be year-round. If you’d like to change your in-person appointment to meeting online, please feel free to do so, but give me a heads up in advance so I don’t travel to the office. If inclement weather prevents us from meeting online, I’ll do my best to reschedule you as soon as possible. A little about me / my practice:
I wish you a healthy Summer and look forward to meeting you when the time is right for you. Until then…. Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC Owner, Turning Inward LLC “Gentle Support for Difficult Times” 937-321-9794 “Every flower must grow through dirt." Laurie Jean Sennott Do You Identify as Being a Black Sheep? I meet a lot of people who identify as the "black sheep" of their family. Although the term black sheep may have a negative connotation, the people I meet are anything but. Rather, they are brave and cycle breakers forging their own path in life different from their family of origin. Read on to learn more... Being the black sheep of the family can be a difficult experience. It means that you are seen as different from the rest of your family, and often not in a positive way. You may feel like you don't fit in, and that you are constantly being judged or criticized by your family members. There can be many reasons why someone is considered the black sheep of their family. Perhaps they have different interests, beliefs, or values than the rest of their family. Maybe they have made choices or decisions that are not in line with their family's expectations, such as choosing a non-traditional career path, or not following a particular religion. Being the black sheep of the family can lead to feelings of loneliness, isolation, and even rejection. It can be challenging to maintain a strong relationship with family members who do not accept or understand you. However, it is important to remember that you are not alone, and that there are many people who have had similar experiences. It may be helpful to seek support from friends, a therapist, or a support group. It may also be beneficial to have an open and honest conversation with your family about how you feel, and to try to find common ground and understanding, if this can be done safely. Ultimately, it is important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness, which may involve using boundaries, distancing yourself from your family, or making difficult choices. Ultimately, you get to decide. - Reminder |
Late summer and early fall are a favorite time of year for many in Ohio, especially if you enjoy less humidity, the beauty of fall leaves, hoodies, and enjoying a warm beverage in crisper air.
But for some, the shorter days and increasingly gray skies have a negative impact on mood and energy.
If you know late autumn and winter tend to be difficult for you, September is a good time to start caring for yourself a little more intentionally.
Seasonal affective disorder (SAD), AKA depression with a seasonal pattern, can bring changes in mood, energy, sleep, appetite, motivation, and our desire to connect with others.
Here are a few gentle ways to prepare.
Take care of your body
The basics really do matter. Aim for a consistent sleep schedule and 7-9 hours of sleep. Move your body in ways that feel good...walking, stretching, yoga, yard work, shooting hoops, or whatever works for you.
And when you can, get outside during the daylight. Natural light helps regulate our internal clock, and even a cloudy day is an opportunity to get outside.
Nourish yourself with regular, balanced meals, and if caffeine affects your sleep, consider cutting it off earlier in the day.
Stay connected
When we're tired or feeling low, it's easy to withdraw.
Try not to wait until you feel better to connect with others. Call a friend. Have coffee with someone. Take a walk together. Join a class or book club. Invite someone over.
Connection doesn't have to be complicated in order to be beneficial.
Create some cozy
I love the Danish concept of Hygge - creating warmth, comfort, and coziness in everyday life.
Pull out a favorite book. Make a warm drink. Light a candle. Put on your favorite music, sweatshirt, or socks. Sit by the fireplace. Cook something comforting.
Whatever helps your space feel like a place you want to be, make a little more room for that this season.
Be gentle with yourself
If fall and winter are difficult for you, don't beat yourself up over it.
Instead of "Why am I like this?" or "I should be doing better," try:
"This is a challenging time for me. What do I need right now?"
Sometimes it's enough to notice what helps you feel more like yourself and make a little more room for those things.
And sometimes more support may be needed. If seasonal changes significantly affect your mood, ability to function, or relationships, consider talking with a mental health or healthcare professional. Effective treatments are available.
Don't wait until you're struggling
Get some daylight.
Move your body.
Get enough sleep.
Connect with supportive others.
Create some coziness in your space.
Be gentle with yourself.
And if you need more support, reach out.
The gray days will come and go. Be gentle with yourself while you move through them.
Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC
Turning Inward Counseling
Ohio Counseling for Adults
www.turninginwardllc.com
But for some, the shorter days and increasingly gray skies have a negative impact on mood and energy.
If you know late autumn and winter tend to be difficult for you, September is a good time to start caring for yourself a little more intentionally.
Seasonal affective disorder (SAD), AKA depression with a seasonal pattern, can bring changes in mood, energy, sleep, appetite, motivation, and our desire to connect with others.
Here are a few gentle ways to prepare.
Take care of your body
The basics really do matter. Aim for a consistent sleep schedule and 7-9 hours of sleep. Move your body in ways that feel good...walking, stretching, yoga, yard work, shooting hoops, or whatever works for you.
And when you can, get outside during the daylight. Natural light helps regulate our internal clock, and even a cloudy day is an opportunity to get outside.
Nourish yourself with regular, balanced meals, and if caffeine affects your sleep, consider cutting it off earlier in the day.
Stay connected
When we're tired or feeling low, it's easy to withdraw.
Try not to wait until you feel better to connect with others. Call a friend. Have coffee with someone. Take a walk together. Join a class or book club. Invite someone over.
Connection doesn't have to be complicated in order to be beneficial.
Create some cozy
I love the Danish concept of Hygge - creating warmth, comfort, and coziness in everyday life.
Pull out a favorite book. Make a warm drink. Light a candle. Put on your favorite music, sweatshirt, or socks. Sit by the fireplace. Cook something comforting.
Whatever helps your space feel like a place you want to be, make a little more room for that this season.
Be gentle with yourself
If fall and winter are difficult for you, don't beat yourself up over it.
Instead of "Why am I like this?" or "I should be doing better," try:
"This is a challenging time for me. What do I need right now?"
Sometimes it's enough to notice what helps you feel more like yourself and make a little more room for those things.
And sometimes more support may be needed. If seasonal changes significantly affect your mood, ability to function, or relationships, consider talking with a mental health or healthcare professional. Effective treatments are available.
Don't wait until you're struggling
Get some daylight.
Move your body.
Get enough sleep.
Connect with supportive others.
Create some coziness in your space.
Be gentle with yourself.
And if you need more support, reach out.
The gray days will come and go. Be gentle with yourself while you move through them.
Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC
Turning Inward Counseling
Ohio Counseling for Adults
www.turninginwardllc.com
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy or CBT is a form of psychotherapy (or ‘talk’ therapy).
It is well researched and has been scientifically validated making it an “evidenced-based treatment”. It focuses on the client’s current difficulties and what is maintaining them. CBT helps treat depression, anxiety, trauma, and other mental health concerns.
CBT is a collaborative treatment with active involvement from both therapist and client. Working together, the therapist helps the client recognize problematic thinking patterns and helps the client explore and identify more realistic ways of viewing situations.
Homework can be a component of treatment which may include articles to read, relaxation exercises, daily or weekly goals, worksheets to complete, practice identifying unhelpful thinking, and learning to make connections between your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
CBT is generally considered a short-term therapy with the number of sessions ranging from 5-12 sessions depending upon the individual, their needs, and their commitment to practicing what they learn in their sessions in real life.
As a mental health professional, I really like using CBT with clients as it provides a quick treatment and tools to help ease anxiety, depression, symptoms of trauma and other mental health concerns. CBT teaches coping techniques, that once learned, can continue to be of help throughout your lifespan. Some mental health professionals say that CBT should be taught in school, and I couldn’t agree more.
If CBT is a treatment approach that interests you, feel free to email me at [email protected]. All the best!
Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC
Turning Inward LLC
https://www.turninginwardllc.com
It is well researched and has been scientifically validated making it an “evidenced-based treatment”. It focuses on the client’s current difficulties and what is maintaining them. CBT helps treat depression, anxiety, trauma, and other mental health concerns.
CBT is a collaborative treatment with active involvement from both therapist and client. Working together, the therapist helps the client recognize problematic thinking patterns and helps the client explore and identify more realistic ways of viewing situations.
Homework can be a component of treatment which may include articles to read, relaxation exercises, daily or weekly goals, worksheets to complete, practice identifying unhelpful thinking, and learning to make connections between your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
CBT is generally considered a short-term therapy with the number of sessions ranging from 5-12 sessions depending upon the individual, their needs, and their commitment to practicing what they learn in their sessions in real life.
As a mental health professional, I really like using CBT with clients as it provides a quick treatment and tools to help ease anxiety, depression, symptoms of trauma and other mental health concerns. CBT teaches coping techniques, that once learned, can continue to be of help throughout your lifespan. Some mental health professionals say that CBT should be taught in school, and I couldn’t agree more.
If CBT is a treatment approach that interests you, feel free to email me at [email protected]. All the best!
Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC
Turning Inward LLC
https://www.turninginwardllc.com
Why Single-Tasking Improves Mental Health, Focus, and Stress Levels in Ohio Adults
In today’s fast-paced world, multitasking is often worn like a badge of honor. Employers may list it as a required skill. Productivity culture praises it. Many adults in Ohio tell me they feel pressure to constantly juggle tasks, emails, conversations, errands, parenting, and work responsibilities...all at once!
But here’s the truth: multitasking is for computers, not humans.
The Origin of “Multitasking”
The term multitasking originated in the 1960s during the rise of computer technology. It described a computer’s ability to process multiple tasks simultaneously.
Somewhere along the way, we adopted that same expectation for ourselves.
But humans are not computers. Our brains are designed to focus on one task at a time. When we try to split our attention, we aren’t actually multitasking, rather we are task-switching. And task-switching comes with a cost.
Why Multitasking Increases Stress and Anxiety
If you don’t believe multitasking doesn’t work, consider this: How many things can you truly finish at the exact same moment? Completion only happens one task at a time.
When your focus is divided among multiple responsibilities, your nervous system shifts into a stress response. Many adults I work with in individual therapy across Ohio report feeling:
This may actually be a simple working definition of stress:
Having too much to do and too many things to focus on at once, without the capacity to complete them one at a time.
When we constantly divide our attention, our brains never fully “arrive” anywhere. There is no sense of resolution, only interruption.
The Mental Health Benefits of Single-Tasking
Now imagine this instead:
You focus on one task.
You give it your attention.
You think clearly.
You complete it.
There’s a natural rhythm to single-tasking. It allows your mind to settle. You can relax into the process. You reach a resolution. You experience a sense of completion.
And that completion? It’s regulating for your nervous system.
Adults who practice focusing on one task at a time may notice:
Single-tasking isn’t about doing less. It’s about doing things with intention.
Practical Ways to Stop Multitasking
If you live in Ohio and feel chronically overwhelmed, here are a few small shifts to try:
Even small changes can significantly reduce stress.
Slowing Down Is Not Laziness, It’s Regulation
In therapy at Turning Inward Counseling, I often help adults explore how productivity, pressure, and perfectionism contribute to stress and anxiety. Many of us were taught that doing more at once means we are high performers.
But, being scattered is not the same as being effective.
You are allowed to focus.
You are allowed to complete one thing at a time.
You are allowed to move at a human pace.
Aah, doesn't that feel better.
Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC
Turning Inward Counseling
Individual self-pay therapy for adults in Ohio
www.turninginwardllc.com
But here’s the truth: multitasking is for computers, not humans.
The Origin of “Multitasking”
The term multitasking originated in the 1960s during the rise of computer technology. It described a computer’s ability to process multiple tasks simultaneously.
Somewhere along the way, we adopted that same expectation for ourselves.
But humans are not computers. Our brains are designed to focus on one task at a time. When we try to split our attention, we aren’t actually multitasking, rather we are task-switching. And task-switching comes with a cost.
Why Multitasking Increases Stress and Anxiety
If you don’t believe multitasking doesn’t work, consider this: How many things can you truly finish at the exact same moment? Completion only happens one task at a time.
When your focus is divided among multiple responsibilities, your nervous system shifts into a stress response. Many adults I work with in individual therapy across Ohio report feeling:
- Overwhelmed
- Mentally scattered
- Irritable
- Drained at the end of the day
- Unable to fully relax
This may actually be a simple working definition of stress:
Having too much to do and too many things to focus on at once, without the capacity to complete them one at a time.
When we constantly divide our attention, our brains never fully “arrive” anywhere. There is no sense of resolution, only interruption.
The Mental Health Benefits of Single-Tasking
Now imagine this instead:
You focus on one task.
You give it your attention.
You think clearly.
You complete it.
There’s a natural rhythm to single-tasking. It allows your mind to settle. You can relax into the process. You reach a resolution. You experience a sense of completion.
And that completion? It’s regulating for your nervous system.
Adults who practice focusing on one task at a time may notice:
- Reduced anxiety and stress
- Improved concentration
- Greater productivity
- Less mental fatigue
- More satisfaction at the end of the day
Single-tasking isn’t about doing less. It’s about doing things with intention.
Practical Ways to Stop Multitasking
If you live in Ohio and feel chronically overwhelmed, here are a few small shifts to try:
- Finish one email before opening another
- Silence notifications while working on a task
- Schedule focused work blocks
- Physically write down tasks so your brain doesn’t hold them all at once
- Pause and ask: “What is the one thing I’m doing right now?”
Even small changes can significantly reduce stress.
Slowing Down Is Not Laziness, It’s Regulation
In therapy at Turning Inward Counseling, I often help adults explore how productivity, pressure, and perfectionism contribute to stress and anxiety. Many of us were taught that doing more at once means we are high performers.
But, being scattered is not the same as being effective.
You are allowed to focus.
You are allowed to complete one thing at a time.
You are allowed to move at a human pace.
Aah, doesn't that feel better.
Tracy Hunt, MSEd, LPCC
Turning Inward Counseling
Individual self-pay therapy for adults in Ohio
www.turninginwardllc.com
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